Sharing the gift
Pause for a moment and think carefully: what thoughts and feelings emerge when you think of the word obligation ? As Catholics, it is a word with which we are familiar. We are obliged to go to Holy Mass on Sundays and Holy Days of obligation; we are obliged to abstain from meat on (virtually all) Fridays of the year; we are obliged to fast and abstain from meat on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday; etc. There is a temptation to view these as actions imposed upon us by an external force, against which we are inclined to resist. But I cannot be the only one who sees this as a very negative understanding of our obligations. What if the word obligation has different connotations? For example, if we say to someone, “I'm obliged,” we are expressing gratitude for a favour or a service; it is a more formal way of saying, “Thank you.” Seen from this perspective, our Catholic obligations should be an instinctive, internal response to the endless and lavish love that God has fo...